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Dedicated to my friend, Ben, who doesn’t realize what more she has inside of her.
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I am almost 78, had a stroke at 61, and never thought about death until just recently, and now, at least a couple of time a day–everyday–it’s all I can think about in random intervals. I had dreams about death, the worst being whrn I suddenly woke up in the coffin when I was really six-feet under. Chills and shudders!
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(The links are highlighted in red, and the topics to feel younger at any age are highlighted in blue).
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I had a stroke from stress almost 16 years ago and the jerk I was living with gave me lots of stress (https://talesofastrokesurvivor.blog/the-latest-findings-between-stress-and-stroke/), but I thought I could “normalize” him. And he didn’t like my boys because they were smarter than him. (Ladies, you can’t ever “normalize” a man if he thinks everybody else is wrong. I learned that lesson too late). The stroke interfered with my leaving him. He was with me way too long, and the fault lies with me.  
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But on March 27, my birthday, leaving the past transgressions behind me (my boys still refer him as “a rotten choice” and some other names I won’t say to keep the integrity of my blog), I want to think younger instead of focusing on dying, and that’s on me, too. It’s time to not think about death but rather life here right now. Youthfulness is a state of mind. It is represented by connection, desire to learn, curiosity, and delight.
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The moment has come for research, I decided. 
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Look up at the nigth-time sky on a cloud-free night.dThe human brain and the Milky Way galaxy share amazing similarities. Both contain roughly over a billion key elements, that is neurons in the brain and stars in the galaxy. And the total neurons are roughly equivalent to the Milky Way’s star count. 
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However, there is one segment of our slightly more than 8.2 billion living worldwide known as SuperAgers who are adults ages 80 and older who are careful to think young. In the aged adults, previous studies show that SuperAgers may experience no cognitive impairments and with exceptional memory volume.
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Feeling youthful again after a brain injury at age 80 and more involves aligning the brain’s everlasting ability to rewire itself, a process called neuroplasticity, while utilizing activities that restore physical and social spirit. Research shows that healthy older adults can reach goals similar to younger individuals by taking more time and persistent repetition.
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A recent study published in the journal from the University of Illinois at Chicago and elsewhere has found that SuperAgers grow more neurons than other older adults groups, helping to keep their brains young and healthy.
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Researchers focused on neurogenesis, the formation of new neurons from neural stem cells, and  found that hippocampal neurogenesis, having a major role in learning, emotion, and memory, progresses in healthy human adults. And just because you had a brain injury does not mean you’re unhealthy. The negative stigma around brain injuries can sometimes lead people to make broad assumptions that simply aren’t accurate or even fair. 

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Megan Glenn, clinical neuropsychologist in the Center for Memory and Healthy Aging at the Hackensack-Meridian Neuroscience Institute at Jersey Shore University Medical Center, said her first reaction to its findings was enthusiasm.

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“For a long time, the adult brain was seen as relatively fixed,” Glenn related. “This study is a breath of fresh air, providing strong biological evidence for what we hope to be true: that the brain has a capacity for renewal.”

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All that Glenn says doesn’t come by magic. You need to work if you want to regain vigor, joy, and feeling (not being) young again. You do so by accepting your body, emotions, and social interactions without overdoing. The following are examples of how 80 and above feel youthful. Even if you are decades younger, the same applies to you, too.

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For cognitive and brain improvement, daily brain training include varied sessions of puzzles, memory games, apps designed for cognition, reading aloud, or learning a new simple skill. Or enlist in cognitive rehab or therapy for memory, attention, and problem-solving retraining. Music works, too, by listening, singing, or playing an instrument, alluring to vast brain networks. Acknowledging loss of one or more senses, for example, with hearing aids or appropriate glasses, can majorly lessen the risk of cognitive worsening. 

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Aim for physical activity 3 to 5 times/week, 20 to 30 minutes if acceptable by improving sleep, mood, and brain capacity. Try if you’re able for regular aerobic exercise like walking (even just short around the home or garden), stationary bike, or water aerobics in reducing gravity’s pull, making movement feel easier and much more restoring. Stretching and mellow yoga or tai chi help flexibility and calmness. In addition, balance and strength training, like chair squats or resistance bands, are designed to reduce falls and increase self-determination.

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Emotional and mental health can improve by treating depression and/or anxiety quickly by medications and one-on-one therapy to improve motivation, reduce stress, and sharpen focus. Try to practice mindfulness or breathing exercises daily. Spending time with younger generations can naturally make you feel younger. If you have grandchildren or great-grandchildren, ask them to teach you about their world like a new technology or current music. Try volunteering that matches seniors with young students for  conversations or reading out loud by listening to their reactions.

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Social communication include activities mentoring younger people, art, or storytelling can help that goal of feeling younger. Cheer yourself with any progress. Join any group that caters to your needs and meeting with people just life yourself. Here are my own 3 favorite for the brain injured:

Penpals, aka letter writing, through email as in Brain Exchange and video calls with friends and family somehow makes you feel younger. 

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Avoid illicit drugs and alcohol as well as tobacco because it can or exacerbate brain injury while also increasing the risk for respiratory problems, cancer, and cardiovascular malfunction. Alcohol use disorder (AUD) especially can interfere with recovery and often has serious, even potentially life-threatening effects used post-injury.

AUD can cause injury to the brain, up to and including Wernicke’s encephalopathy (a serious, acute neurological emergency caused by a deficiency in vitamin B1 (thiamine), most commonly related to alcohol use disorder) and Korsakoff syndrome (a severe memory disorder) caused by a lack of vitamin B1 most commonly linked to chronic alcohol misuse.

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Nutrition and sleep mattter, too. Consume a balanced, varied diet with lean protein, vegetables, whole grains, and healthy fats. The Mediterranean-style way of eating helps brain health by focusing on fruits, vegetables, fatty fish (omega-3s), and whole grains to support heart and brain health. Consistent sleep regimen helps with regular bedtime, late caffeine (for most people, after 2 pm), and treat sleep apnea if present. Sleep is when the brain clears out abnormal proteins and consolidates memories.

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Continue to enjoy the activities you used to like. Learn new things like a language at your own pace. Try youthful dancing (even without a partner) to your favorite music like rock n’ roll or country. Also, use creative hobbies like knitting or crocheting as a gift for a loves one, anything that triggers feelings of youthfulness. Varying your activities is more effective than repeating the same activities all the time, every day.

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Use adaptive strategies if needed, like hearing and vision aids. Always use better sensory input improves engagement. Don’t let vanity get in the way! Let assistive tech help you, like medication reminders, large-button phones, voice assistants, and simplified tablets for video games. 

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Sensory pleasure and joy are included, too. Spend time with your pets or animal therapy programs, and don’t forget about you! Time outdoors like sunlight, fresh air, and nature are powerful mood uppers. Music from your past, familiar scents that bring you euphoria and are reminiscent of you, or favorite foods that bring back the past and good times only. After a brain injury, your baseline for energy and ability may have changed, but you can still bring about a youthful spirit.

You can recreate this forward-looking momentum by setting new, reachable goals that give your days structure and purpose. For example, caring for a low-maintenance houseplant or a small window herb garden gives you something to tend to and watch grow every day. Take planned, quiet rest breaks before you feel tired. By managing your energy well, the active hours of your day will feel much more alive. Simply sitting outside, listening to birds, or feeling the sun on your face, can spark a thoughtful sense of presence and energy.

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Mindset is a factor, too. Celebrate small wins. They reflect real brain work. Grief over changes is valid, and speaking with a counselor can help process it. But most of all, focus on what is possible, not what was lost. Try listening to a podcast about a topic you know nothing about, use water-color painting, or learning a few words of a new language. The goal is not mastery; the goal is simply the youthful act of exploring something for the very first time.

Youth is defined by learning and curiosity. Even after 80, and even after a brain injury, your brain still possesses the ability to form new connections. Remember to be deeply gentle with yourself. You have survived eight decades of life and a brain injury. You are amazingly strong. Celebrate the small victories, feel grief during the hard days without judgment, and focus on whatever brings a smile to your face. How about today?

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Safety comes first. Get a fall-safety assessment at home and use assistive devices if needed. Talk with your PCP (primary care physician), neurologist, or rehab specialist before starting new activities. Ask about heart, balance, and medications. And off you go!

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As George Bernard Shaw once said, “We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.”

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Think about that!

Joyce Hoffman

Joyce Hoffman

Joyce Hoffman is one of the world's top 10 stroke bloggers according to the Medical News Today. You can find the original post and other blogs Joyce wrote in Tales of a Stroke Survivor. (https://talesofastrokesurvivor.blog)
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Kate
Kate
20 days ago

This is wonderful self-care? Thanks for such thoughtful discussion of how to live on the brighter side!💝

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